Can anyone that knows help me, I think the relay in the two links is the same (albeit with different pin numbers!) can anyone confirm this? Thanks

http://www.machine7.com/product.php?xProd=3051

http://www.autoelectricsupplies.co.uk/mobile/product/174

The first one has a headlamp flash facility

Ahhhh okay thanks, should stop being cheap!

just to throw a spanner in the works, i brought one of those euro relays with flash facility and it did not work, apparently there is alot of faulty ones, so i gave up and put an original vw beetle one in.